Sunday, September 21, 2008

5 Fear Truths

Adapted from "Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway" by Susan Jeffers

1. The fear will never go away as long as you continue to grow.
2. The only way to get rid of the fear of doing something is to go out...and do it.
3. The only way to feel better about yourself is to go out...and do it.
4. Not only are you going to experience fear whenever you are on unfamiliar territory, but so it everyone else.
5. Pushing through fear is less frightening than living with the underlying fear that comes from a feeling of helplessness

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Story - Start with Yourself by Anonymous

The following words were written on the tomb of an Anglican Bishop in the Crypts of Westminster Abbey:

When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits, I dreamed of changing the world. As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change, so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country.

But it too, seemed immovable.

As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it.

And now as I lie on my deathbed, I suddenly realize: If I had only changed myself first, then by example I would have changed my family.

From their inspiration and encouragement, I would then have been able to better my country and, who knows, I may have even changed the world.

Live in Love or Live in Fear

Each day, we make a choice to live in love or be controlled by our ego mind and live in fear. For every situation, we make a choice. We can choose to see the purity of the situation or circumstance surrounding us.

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Energize Yourself

ENERGIZE YOURSELF
The gift of spiritual alignment. When you consciously align with spiritual principles, you give yourself an opening for transformation.

The magic of alchemy works by aligning with the principles that make up the universe's operating system. Here are examples of how you might apply these universal principles on a daily basis.
The events in my life reflect who I am: I will apply one experience today to myself. Whatever catches my attention is trying to tell me something. If I feel angry at anyone, I will see if what I dislike in the person actually exists in me. If an overheard conversation catches my attention, I will take those words as a personal message. I want to find the world that is inside me.
Whatever I pay attention to will grow: I will take inventory of how I'm using my attention. I will keep a log of how much time I spend with television, video games, the computer, hobbies, gossip, work I don't care about, work I am passionate about, activities that fascinate me, and fantasies of escape or fulfillment. In this way I will find out what aspects of my life are going to grow. Then I will ask, "What do I want to grow in my life?" This will tell me where my attention needs to shift.
At any given moment, the universe is giving me the best results possible: I will concentrate today on the gifts in my life. I will focus on what is working instead of what is not isn't. I will appreciate this world of light and shadow. I will receive with grace the remarkable gift of awareness. I will notice how my own level of awareness makes me perceive the world I am co-creating.
Adapted from The Book of Secrets by Deepak Chopra (Harmony Books, 2004).

(Thank you to a friend of mine for Sharon this within a good friend circle)

A Poem Entitled "Love"

This was written by a guy named Miah, that I met in college; he had written it for a girl that had recently left him. Wherever you are out there in the world, Miah, I hope that she had the opportunity to read this poem.

Love is a slow kiss goodnight. It's anticipation.

Love is flirting outrageously and still remembering that the person at your side is not obligated to do anything. It's respect.

Love is an imperfection in yourself not bothering you. It's acceptance.

Love is passing up an opportunity because the time isn't right yet. It's patience.

Love is a back massage that starts above the hairline and ends around the insoles. It's exploration.

Love is not having to say "Let's make love," because you know what the other person wants. It's understanding.

Love is being given an honest chance to say no when you thought you were committed. It's consideration.

Love is both of you remembering protection. It's responsibility.

Love is saying the perfect phrase to make a solemn embrace dissolve into giggles. It's humor.

Love is being told "Stop and I'll kill you." It's desire.

Love is reviewing the damage to your living room and realizing personal effects are strewn in a clockwise pattern from the front door to the bedroom. It's abandonment.

Love is seeing what your lover really looks like for the first time. It's truth.

Love is knowing what time it is and not caring. It's joy.

Love is the arms around you tightening their embrace. It's ecstasy.

Love is seeing a new side of a person you thought you knew. It's renewal.

Love is telling a person if you have to leave, you will let them sleep, and being told they would rather be woken. It's tenderness.

Love is waking up to find the subject of your dream you were having asleep on your shoulder. It's where fantasy meets reality.

Love is being there to wake your love. Slowly. It's sensuousness.

Love is belatedly knowing why you bothered to buy a queen-sized bed three years ago. It's practicality.

Love is two people only taking up a third of the queen-sized bed. It's closeness.

Love is knowingyou gave the extra set of keys to your apartment to the right person. It's trust.

Love is saying good-by and knowing you will be back by mutual consent. It's faith.

Love is stretching your arms and discovering the real meaning of the word "sore". It's a lesson of human frailty.

Love is opening your medicine cabinet and finding your tube of toothpaste turned into a pretzel. It's adaptation.

Love is sitting at a window, looking out and a remembering who you were with the night before. It's reflection.

Love is hearing the weather forecast for a winter storm and wishing you could spend it in bed with your lover. It's loneliness.

Love is stories that will never be told. It's personal.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Thoughts from a Friend's Visit to a Church

Simply Stated...

Live Passionately
Love Completely
Learn Humbly
Die Boldly

Don't wait for future moments, be in the now...